Top 10 Turn Offs For Most Men

By  Geanice  Gee,  M.A. 

1.      Talking about your monthly (period) is a major turn off. I don't know if it's the thought of menstrual blood coming from the genital area or if some men have had a bad experience with a woman during this time of the month; in any case, women please refrain from talking about your monthly unless it's necessary. Times when it's absolutely necessary include:

•  When your monthly is late,
• When you're preparing to have sex, or 
• When you need your partner to pick up feminine products.

2.      Wearing granny nightgowns or panties to bed is a "no-no," especially for unmarried women. The goal should be to get him to marry you; so try to look your best at all times and save your granny gear until after the honeymoon. Think smart!

3.      Believe it or not, most men don't like it when women want to consume all of their time; therefore clingy women are a major turn off. You don't want to become his shadow, better yet; he doesn't want you to follow his every move.

Allow him to hang with his friends without you constantly calling, sending text messages or threats; in other words, let him experience the world without you. You'll see that this time apart is healthy for your relationship.

4.      In general, rolling out of a pair of clean or dirty underwear and then leaving them where they fall is nasty. No one wants to see dirty clothing from a guest lying around their house or wake up to a nose twisting bad odor in the morning. Please, collect your dirty laundry, and put it in your own hamper. It's best to present yourself as a neat freak instead of as an unkempt woman.  

5.      Most women don't like men who can't handle their liquor and believe it or not, most men don't like drunken women either.

6.      Swearing in public is unladylike and a turn off for most men. Please, refrain from using any language that would show you in a negative light or as a manly woman that no man wants to date.

7.      A nagger that just won't shut up is very annoying in general.  Most men prefer not to hear constant complaining. Think about it, why would anyone want to come home to someone that is always finding faults and is negative? If you can't find any good in him, maybe you should consider leaving him instead of making both of your lives miserable.

8.      Try not to talk negatively about his friends as they are often a reflection of him. If you don't like the company he keeps, you may want to find a positive way to present this information, so that it doesn't appear that you are trying to control him and his relationships. You don't want to be seen as a control freak, so be cautious, and whatever you do, don't belittle his friends or relatives. 

9.      Men don't like it when women give too many directions during sex. Let him be the guide and if he lacks experience teach him; but if he doesn't want your input, it may be best to replace him with a man who is willing to listen and learn. 

10.  Wearing pajamas throughout the day gives the impressive that you're a lazy/dirty person. Every day you should bathe, brush your hair and teeth even when you don't plan to leave the house. Most men don't like funky women, so it's best to have good hygiene when interacting with the opposite sex.